Mar 14, 2007

Changing equations...........


Different people get different insights in our life! They teach you something new, give you experiences, you never would have had, otherwise. They can sometimes alter your perspective towards a lot of things, completely! Well, whether we like it or not, people do affect our lives, thoughts and approach, and this whole process is worth every effort, every heart ache, and every bad friendship, we might have encountered - because at the end of the day, they teach us something new too, right?


Well, some of us, unfortunately, miss the whole experience, because, we prefer to put ourselves in our own closed world, shying away from experiencing new friendships, from feeling them within us and around us. I was, and to some extent, still am, one of those! (OK.......ALL MY FRIENDS TAKE A BOW, FOR DRILLING THIS IN MY HEAD!!!)


No, but seriously, its only recently, that I have started to actually understand what I just might have missed...... sure, I have some amazing friends, great memories, and wonderful family, but for a change, I am ready to experience the company of people beyond my comfort zone, which I had shut myself up from, for various reasons.... right from my fear of encountering betrayals from friends, to the whole, I am too cool to be nice phases! Yea, i still am not THAT comfy with absolute strangers asking me personal questions, but, I guess, making an effort to be more tolerant and 'open' towards others would be a right step ahead, watsay????


Would just like to say a BIG BIG BIG THANK YOU to my special friends Rosh, Rids, Nemo, Sona, Saks ..........because i felt like it!!!

9 comments:

Riddhi said...

hey rachana .. i comletely know wats the clutter all about... and the person u aspire to be since u ahve realised dat u have been staying in a virtual world, is not a difficult task at all... i understand that u r apprehensive about strangers asking u personal questions n etc etc.. but beleve me its all about getting comfortable with a smart sense of answerability... hehe dats how u get escape situations which u dont wanna face...

wen i read this post i felt u r toooo rigid with ur emotions n you u depend a lot on wat u feel....

well i wud like to give u suggestion before u start ur journey with strangers... here it goes... "Feelings are like water.. they dont have their own shape or impression.. but they keep flowing one place to another.... hence do not conclude anything on the basis of ur feelings... bcoz feelings r never permanent...!!" i hope u got the message...

i totally empathise with u coz i too feel bad wen i dont get the right response... but if i give my most attention to wat i felt [feelin] i wud never be able to face that person again....

fight people in a right way... all the best..

Riddhi said...

hey rachana .. i comletely know wats the clutter all about... and the person u aspire to be since u ahve realised dat u have been staying in a virtual world, is not a difficult task at all... i understand that u r apprehensive about strangers asking u personal questions n etc etc.. but beleve me its all about getting comfortable with a smart sense of answerability... hehe dats how u get escape situations which u dont wanna face...

wen i read this post i felt u r toooo rigid with ur emotions n you u depend a lot on wat u feel....

well i wud like to give u suggestion before u start ur journey with strangers... here it goes... "Feelings are like water.. they dont have their own shape or impression.. but they keep flowing one place to another.... hence do not conclude anything on the basis of ur feelings... bcoz feelings r never permanent...!!" i hope u got the message...

i totally empathise with u coz i too feel bad wen i dont get the right response... but if i give my most attention to wat i felt [feelin] i wud never be able to face that person again....

fight people in a right way... all the best..

Riddhi said...

hey rachana .. i comletely know wats the clutter all about... and the person u aspire to be since u ahve realised dat u have been staying in a virtual world, is not a difficult task at all... i understand that u r apprehensive about strangers asking u personal questions n etc etc.. but beleve me its all about getting comfortable with a smart sense of answerability... hehe dats how u get escape situations which u dont wanna face...

wen i read this post i felt u r toooo rigid with ur emotions n you u depend a lot on wat u feel....

well i wud like to give u suggestion before u start ur journey with strangers... here it goes... "Feelings are like water.. they dont have their own shape or impression.. but they keep flowing one place to another.... hence do not conclude anything on the basis of ur feelings... bcoz feelings r never permanent...!!" i hope u got the message...

i totally empathise with u coz i too feel bad wen i dont get the right response... but if i give my most attention to wat i felt [feelin] i wud never be able to face that person again....

fight people in a right way... all the best..

Lust4Life said...

Hiii Rachana,

>:D<
Sailing in the same boat :D:D:D
I understand xactly wat u feel.

I completely agree wid RIDDHI's views. Put beautifully across.

"Feelings are like water.. they dont have their own shape or impression.. but they keep flowing one place to another....
Very impressive.
I replied ur comment on my blog and Jus find 'lust4life' to reach me on orkut.


Love,Live,Laughter
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Lust4Life said...

Hiii Rachana,

>:D<
Sailing in the same boat :D:D:D
I understand xactly wat u feel.

I completely agree wid RIDDHI's views. Put beautifully across.

"Feelings are like water.. they dont have their own shape or impression.. but they keep flowing one place to another....
Very impressive.
I replied ur comment on my blog and Jus find 'lust4life' to reach me on orkut.


Love,Live,Laughter
Lust4Life

Lust4Life said...

Hiii Rachana,

>:D<
Sailing in the same boat :D:D:D
I understand xactly wat u feel.

I completely agree wid RIDDHI's views. Put beautifully across.

"Feelings are like water.. they dont have their own shape or impression.. but they keep flowing one place to another....
Very impressive.
I replied ur comment on my blog and Jus find 'lust4life' to reach me on orkut.


Love,Live,Laughter
Lust4Life

sanjay said...

Hi Rachana

Its good you are getting out of your shell. Most of us do this at some stage in our life. In addition to the comments you received I would simply add that its easy to make freinds but very difficult to get the trust. Thus make sure not to lose real gud freinds.

sanjay said...

Hi Rachana

Its good you are getting out of your shell. Most of us do this at some stage in our life. In addition to the comments you received I would simply add that its easy to make freinds but very difficult to get the trust. Thus make sure not to lose real gud freinds.

sanjay said...

Hi Rachana

Its good you are getting out of your shell. Most of us do this at some stage in our life. In addition to the comments you received I would simply add that its easy to make freinds but very difficult to get the trust. Thus make sure not to lose real gud freinds.